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Life Balance – Cultivating Peace & Inner Harmony

Life at times can be so stressful as we inwardly yearn and endeavor to journey to the place where we desire to be in our lives. Nevertheless along the way we must cultivate inner peace, happiness and harmony.

We must learn to enjoy the journey en route to the destination.

This is more easier said than done, given the extent of human impatience in the midst of any process leading to personal progress.

Keep your head up and your heart calm. Maintain your composure and remember that this may be your last day on the planet. Since there are no guaranties of tomorrow, live every day fully and as if it might be your last.

Be well and live your dreams daily. – worldwide speaker, life coach & author of 17 books

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Sexual Assault & Date Rape Prevention Speaker: Guy Raped by Girl Reveals Assault Prevention Secrets

Unbelievable to some, but certainly not to me, is the reality of date rape no matter your sex. When I was a senior in high-school I was out with some friends. We were all underage and drinking a bit. I was in the backseat of car talking to some friends, when all of the sudden a female athlete from my high-school jumped in the backseat of the car and began undressing me.

Invite worldwide speaker and life-changing author Paul F. Davis to speak to your college students about sexual assault & date rape prevention! Paul’s books Empowering & Liberating Women; Sexual Assault & Date Rape Prevention; and Healthy Relationships are in hot demand.

Because I had been drinking my ability to resist her was very minimal. Ironically, while sitting in the backseat I had watched just minutes prior as this young lady had been in the front seat with my best friend. She jumped in his lap and was kissing him, which I was shocked to see as she wasn’t all that attractive.

She certainly wasn’t my type, but once she jumped in the backseat she tried immediately to kiss me. Thankfully I had enough energy to turn my head and avoid having to kiss her. Then her next move was to start unbuckling my belt and loosening my pants. Going for the gold she tried to have sex with me, but fortunately I was too drunk to be persuaded.

Nevertheless she tried earnestly to take advantage of the situation and proceeded to remove her pants in an attempt to have sex with me. Yet you can’t push a car up a hill with a rope. My rope was limp and there was no moving me, nor having sex with me.

However some embarrassment came when while sitting in the backseat some friends walked over to the car and saw the young lady trying to have sex with me. Most everyone knew what she was up to, but some erroneously assumed I had sex with her, which I did not.

Yet a couple years later, once this young lady was in college, I heard from my cousin that she had been bragging, “I was with your cousin.” She basically was trying to leverage her alleged association with me (which was non-existent and merely her own imagination) to get other guys to like her.

Date rape and sexual assault is real and requires you be adequately informed and sufficiently prepared in order to prevent such situations from ruining and devastating your life. As a worldwide speaker who has himself undergone such predicaments and harmful experiences, I understand what ladies go through when dating hormonally motivated guys who don’t take no for an answer.

Yet I can deliver talks with compassion, humor, and sincerity. The truth and reality of date rape and sexual assault in our country is very real. Orlando alone has incidents on the news every week that are reported.

Sexual assault and date rape is a growing epidemic in our country needing to be aggressively confronted and addressed.

Invite worldwide speaker and life-changing author Paul F. Davis to speak to your college students about sexual assault & date rape prevention! Paul’s books Empowering & Liberating Women; Sexual Assault & Date Rape Prevention; and Healthy Relationships are in hot demand.

Paul is an exceptional and frequently requested speaker for college student success, leadership & orientations.

Paul’s 17 life-changing books have landed him celebrity guest appearances on Fox News Radio and 3 times on Oprah & Friends.

After a 45 minute interview on Playboy Radio, Afternoon Advice host Tiffany Granath calls Paul an awesome relational coach and recommends his books on love, dating, and sexuality.

Paul’s academic success & leadership secrets for college students are empowering. Paul builds bridges cross-culturally, cultivating diversity awareness, empowering college students to discover their destiny & live their dreams.

A master in NLP & life coaching; Paul’s humorous, fun, playful and transformative messages graciously challenge college students to ask themselves hard questions and be their personal best.

As a former high-school senior class English and ESOL teacher, Paul understands the challenges facing incoming college students. Moreover Paul personally knows what transfer students go through as he himself attended a community college where he graduated with a 3.8 GPA before entering UCF, where he graduated Cum Laude. As a worldwide professional speaker who has touched more than 50 countries and 6 continents, Paul greatly appeals to international students throughout the world.

Paul worked at Ground Zero in NYC during 9/11; helped rebuild a home at the tsunami epicenter; comforted victims of genocide in Rwanda; spoke to leaders in East Timor during the war; inspired students & monks in Myanmar; promoted peace & reconciliation in Pakistan; and has been deep into rural Africa where villagers had never before seen a white man.

Paul empowers people to love passionately, work together globally & live their dreams fearlessly.


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